Friday, June 20, 2008

What happens at camp, stays at camp....or not.

First off, I can tell that it is going to be a challenge for me to post every day like I should be doing. However, on the plus side, I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength!! How's that for some motivation? Haha, :)

Over the last couple of days I have learned a few very important lessons. For example:

NEVER go to the movies with someone you know when their parents don't know about it. (I thought they knew but i guess not...)

Don't play 18 holes of golf around noon and not drink water(it doesn't work)

and as it turns out Don't answer your phone at 10:30 at night when your best friend is calling 100 miles away. Why? Drama.

I was minding my own business, reading in bed, when all of a sudden *ring ring* *ring ring*. Well, it's my best friend, so why wouldn't I answer, right? Wrong. Out of her frustration, I got involved in drama miles and miles away. By this time I'm not very happy. One, the chapter was really good, and it's now interrupted. Two, my best friend is in emotional pain, and all I can do is try to comfort her over the phone. Three, I knew I had to do something to set all the drama straight. So I made a few phone calls, got everything on my side sorted out, tried to calm down my friend (to no avail) and I even got to finish the chapter in my book.

The moral? Gossip is a nasty thing. It travels from person to person, getting worse and worse, until finally it's out of control. I was 100 miles away and I was involved in a matter of minutes! I know that I personally try not to gossip, but it's a definite struggle for me. I have to ask myself "is what I'm about to say going to hurt someone if passed on?" Something to think about.

10 comments:

Robin Meadows said...

haha---Loving what you're learning! ; )

Really, it was the deception---and PLEASE believe it is NOTHING NOTHING against YOU! In fact, if you were at least 17 (but preferable even older;) ) we would have been having a whole other conversation! OK?

Just some issues that need to be touched. Trust me--it will be a good thing!

my e-mail for further convo---manymeadows@yahoo.com ; )
Love you!

Robin Meadows said...

Oh, and great points on your post too! STAY OUT of that gossip!!

Alec Warn said...

haha. why does that sound so... oh i dont know... familiar?!? haha! there was definitaly a lot of gossip goin' around that night. but gossip is RETARDED ;].

Jordan Garrett said...

robin- thanx for clearing that up! i really REALLY apriciate it! LOVE the blog!
Alec-yeah..kinda familiar...i wonder why?! eh, i give up ;)

Taylor Hale said...

Did you go to choir camp?? I wanted to go, but couldn't... :(

YYY said...

ya...sorry bout that jordan. didn't really think about it before i called you...but all we can do is learn from it know, there's no use crying over spilled milk. (now where did i get that from?!?!) :) i love your blog!!! can't wait to read more!

Jordan Garrett said...

sheridan-dont EVEN worry about it!!! i totally understand, i would have done the same thing in your situation. love ya girlie! however in your case i guess it would be more like "don't cry over spilled kool-aid or something...since you don't drink milk...lol

YYY said...

very true jordan! but kool-aid isn't very good either...maybe we should do something like cherry vanilla dr. pepper or coca-cola zero. lol :)

Jordan Garrett said...

hmmm.....wait i got it! im thinkin a cherry-orange sprite!!! :] (minus the last 10%....) lol

YYY said...

sounds perfect!!! wow, we are so good! (well more like you are so good, but i got you thinking! haha) :)